Harder than you might think
This is not so easy.
Writing a paper about how values influence the decision-making process after I just got off the phone with mom. She was crying, and telling me how she's been trying to take care of my dad--lifting him while she has broken ribs, and she's less than half his size. She's working to make the only income they have. He can't walk, his mind is gone, and there's nothing left for him but the transplant list. He's too incoherent to express whether he even wants one--though, I know he doesn't. He's told me that, before.
I have to make plans to fly to Utah in two weeks to see him. If he makes it that long.
And today, we have the naming of parts.